Harrassment stories ( because they know )
Here the thing I read all the Harrasment stories. and all the war stories. and All i think is fuck black dudes.
See they Know what terror feels like . they know it form being pursued by racist cop/military . they know what it’s like having to control what they say how they move as to not end up dead. They know . And this is why WILL NEVER FORGIVE YOU ! BECAUSE YOU KNOW > yet here you are reigning your misogynist of terror on us . because we the black women must not only deal with racist sexist white male and others .. she must deal with you too. But YOU KNOW .. you too developed survival mechanism to SURVIVE those encounters. but then you turn around and terrorize us just like they terrorize you ! FUCK YOU FUCK YOUR LIFE FUCK YOUR EXISTENCE. because YOU KNOW. I WILL NOT FORGIVE YOU BECAUSE YOU KNOW> HOW DO YOU FEEL WHEN RACIST COPS. RACIST MILITARY OCCUPIERS HUMILIATE YOU. TREAT YOU LIKE A LESSER BEING MAKE YOU FEEL POWERLESS? think about this . think about this for a very long time. well this is how you turn and treat US . so fuck you again. FOR ME THOSE BLACK DUDES ARE ON THEIR OWN. because I have to survive the racist misogynist. and between me and you I WILL NOT BE TERRORIZED BY YOU TOO. YOU AIN”T SHIT . I WANT NOTHING NOTHING TO DO WITH YOU LOT> BECAUSE YOU KNOW TERROR. YOU KNOW . YES THAT IS RIGHT I EXPECT BETTER FROM YOU BECAUSE YOU KNOW. but since you won’t behave and treat me like a human being. fight for your own liberation . it is what you have done anyways . I will fight for my own. I owe YOU NOTHING NOTHING NOTHING NOTHING and I will make sure the future GENERATION KNOWS THAT SHE OWES YOU NOTHING TOO
YOU HATE US JUST LIKE THE RACIST COPS/ MILITARY OCCUPIERS DO. and this is were I’m going to file you.
I have seen it here time and time again from these ‘male feminists’ *cough* *cough* trying to justify and excuse black men’s misogyny by claiming that since white men inform what is to be a man, black men should not/ cannot really be held responsible (¬_¬)
Countless times, I have seen women take the defense of misogynistic shit fucks like Odd Future, Jay-Z and that rapper who was advising young black males to sexually abuse and assault black girls!
Yet I have NEVER EVER EVER EVER seen black men collectively demonstrating the same support and dedication!!
Yeah, all our reality is informed by whiteness since we live within white supremacy DUHHHH!! But debates around black males’ misogyny, like all debates among people of African descents, are trapped in that delusional and fallacious ‘unity’ whose ultimate goal is to cater to the white gaze at the expense of those at the very bottom, in this case black women. Womanists have been concerned about black men’s well-being for decades, did it make them collectively less misogynistic?? A time for responsibility must come! And quick!!
I am just fucking fed up with the fact that ALL conversations about black men’s misogyny have to fucking be derailed by their struggle and hardship within whiteness; and I, a black woman, at the receiving end of misogyny from both black and white men, am ordered to be understanding, open for ‘constructive debate’ FUCK THAT!! Fuck that ‘constructive debate’ that never addresses the facts that black men do have economical, political, cultural and social POWER over black women (hence more agency within white supremacy) and that black misogyny target nobody else but black women!! I have never seen properly dissected here the various ways in which black men, intentionally or not, deploy their power to oppress us yet I have read ginormous garbage such as someone once claiming that it was the understandable result of black men’s emasculation within white supremacy, say what???!?!?!
I have said this time and time again: I DO NOT HAVE TO GIVE A FLYING FUCK OR SIMPLY HEAR ABOUT YOUR PAIN IF YOUR PAIN, AS SOMEONE WITH POWER OVER ME, LEAD YOU TO HURT ME!! FUCK THY PAIN AND FUCK ANY PRIVILEGED PIECE OF SHIT CONVINCED THAT THEIR SUFFERING ENTITLES THEM TO MAKE ME THEIR PUNCHING BALL!! I WILL NEVER EVER LET ANYONE USE THEIR PAIN TO OPPRESS ME!! I am so done with holding people’s hands just to be spat on! At the end of the day, as a black woman, EVERYBODY shits on me and I shouldn’t have to take nicely any blow thrown at me while I am on the floor!
Using your pain to justify/excuse inflicting pain onto others is the typical oppressive tactic which assumes that oppressors’s pain de facto holds more value than the one they are inflicting to their victims, and aims to swift the line of debate so that oppressors are perceived as the ultimate victims in the situation. Hence all the sympathy, time, attention, focus, concern, support that should go to the real victims, are then given to those who oppressed them! This is disgusting blatant erasing manipulative and silencing shit! And you perfectly nailed it! It is indeed because THEY KNOW how it feels like to be degraded humiliated, coerced, harrassed and dehumanised that they should fucking know better and more should be expected from them instead of constantly trying to explain away their excusable behavior!
People are putting the cart before the horse. We shouldn’t assume and pretend that the sole fact of a shared oppression is ground for a unity strong enough to tackle down whiteness!! We should drop that front for a minute, stop trying to get a white people and properly discuss and go through our internal affairs. It is only with a strong and unified coalition that we can defy whiteness. Until then, tschuss!